• feedum_sneedson@lemmy.world
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    3 months ago

    I just don’t find obese women attractive, a little 胖乎乎的婴儿肥 is one thing, but not a serious health condition.

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      3 months ago

      We all have our own attractions, that’s fine. However, people don’t have to meet our standards of beauty to exist and take part in society.

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        3 months ago

        Okay, but let’s stop the creeping cultural psychosis and acknowledge it as a massive health crisis that some people have a fetish for.

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          3 months ago

          Oh yeah, absolutely. I’m not saying that obesity is good, but I also don’t think we can judge people for it. If someone is learning how to love themselves, who are we to stand in their way for it?

          Maybe they need that self love to push them forward and lose that weight? Maybe not. Regardless I don’t think telling people how they should or shouldn’t dress will bring anyone any sort of good.

          It’s that old saying “if you don’t have anything good to say, perhaps don’t say anything at all.”

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          3 months ago

          So is posting on lemmy every hour. But you don’t see people waving it in other’s face, because it is none of your business.