What’s your positive examples of men, fathers, friends, work colleagues, brothers, etc where they were or are emotionally available?

I feel in todays’ society, men are pressured to fit into this image of having to be emotionless. Thus most of us grow up in empty homes with emotionally absent fathers. That sucks and I don’t want my kids to have to suffer such such

I won’t reply probably but I’m interested in your answers. Thanks in advance!

PS;nsfw

Also, this is why I often would indulge in watching porn - because I crave emotional connection/availability. But I don’t need to have my mind cluttered with these images and so, hence I want to practice being emotionally self-aware, present and safe

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    11 months ago

    Cut the porn to be honest.

    Better yourself Get therapy Go for walks Enjoy space, enjoy being you Find hobbies Listen first, listen more Talk to people Take genuine interest in them without coming across like a creep If you work, be a boss or colleague that champions wellbeing and taking sick days If someone is sounding down in a team meeting, check in with them after